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Let me recall all the pathetic mistress' fates (mistress means second priority here).
My first crush - I was just a replacement of loneliness. After the vigorous 2 hours late night kiss, he dated someone else in less than a week.
My first so-called ex - I was just a replacement because he and I were both available. He left me when the one he admired who happened to have rejected him came back to him and of course he wanted that. They are still happily together now. Good for them. I did a right thing to call it off.
My official ex for few months - I don't want to mention about this. But yes, it's related to the blog title.
Other than that, I found out I am somewhat always the 2nd option for others. Am I really that available?
To comfort oneself, the solution is = 2nd priority means you are a very important person who just doesn't appear to be the most important one.
End of story.
OS of the day:
I hate being 2nd priority constantly.
8 comments:
as long as u know ur worth / value.. then who cares if it's not 1st priority ? cos u shld decide ur own position, not others .
Never mind of the 2nd priority because i will not kill you. In fact they see a good value of you. For whatever cause, Im sure one day you will be a top priority :)
:-(
lets have sex
Have you ever dated someone just because they were available?
long time no visit ur blog oredi~
i ada lover, but he isn't my 1st priority. sad huh?
[Jino] - A man's not a man unless he knows how to shoot
I used to have a friend who would constantly tell me how she had accepted her fate as "sombody's second best".
Just like you, many of her relationships would not last as the result of her partner either going back to their ex, or having found a new/better one.
I guess the only solution to this is to set yourself some standards. What do you look for in a boyfriend? Does this person deserve me? etc.
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