Sensitivity

Sometimes, it's very hard, for me, if I can tell what is on other's mind. People might not be aware of what they say at that moment, please what they say, probably make a very bad impression in my heart. And I will probably forget what happens before this, but the impression already helped me to minus some marks on that person.

Everyone is given 100% at first, but when time goes by, the % will decrease slowly. When I don't really respond passionately to someone's sms, calls, msn, facebook, or any kind of contact, it means, I failed that fella.

I feel bad sometimes, because I can't force myself to "relike" someone, when the damage was done, intentionally or not.

One thing for sure, I certainly do not like people to scold me for my shortcoming which I am VERY and ALREADY aware, but something that I cannot change, even after I tried.

It was hurtful, I will just shut up usually. No use to even counter-attack, when I know that's my weakness and I don't need to explain myself to defend or prove anything. But yes, the % will be decreased.

Most of the time, when people tell you, "I don't mind your xxx (shortcoming)", they are just making you feel they are good people. Well, maybe they mean it, but only circumstances and time will tell. It will reveal everything. EVERYTHING.

Thanks. I did have a GREAT outing.

Twice. Twice.

OS of the day:

The way you point out other's weakness reflects how sensitive are you about feelings.